tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76851883273463432222024-02-06T23:03:46.687-05:00USS DAVISUSS DAVIS Welcome Aboard!Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.comBlogger229125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-83210022589912056802014-08-03T20:56:00.000-04:002014-08-03T20:56:57.630-04:00Guess Who Had Another Baby? Introducing Emma Elizabeth!I know, it's been a very long time since I posted. The funny this is that I am on here every day, to check the blogs of my friends. :) But regular blogging isn't a super high priority these days, so I don't expect to be back here again soon. But recording Emma's birth is a high priority, so here we go. <br />
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Emma Elizabeth Davis was born June 7th at 12:40 pm. She is a little darling. Here is her story:<br />
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She was due June 8th. I was really hoping she would come on the 6th, since I was two days early with the last three babies, but no such luck. I had an appointment on the 6th, and they stripped my membranes, which must have gotten the ball rolling; contractions started that night.<br />
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I was also hoping that this delivery would be just like Jonny's. His was nice and easy (comparatively!) at just 6 hours long from water breaking to delivery with no medication and only a little while of pushing. But no such luck.<br />
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I had contractions start early in the morning, at about 1 or 2, and I got out of bed to time them since I knew I wasn't going to get any more sleep while they were happening. After a few hours contractions were about every five minutes lasting about a minute. Some were a lot shorter and some were a lot longer, but that was the average. We live an hour away from the hospital so I decided we would go ahead and go in since I knew the baby would be born that day and I didn't want to get there with too little time like had happened in the past. So we called the doctor office to let them know to tell the hospital. So we left. <br />
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Contractions weren't too bad to handle on the drive there. Each time one hit I just focused on relaxing and it was no big deal. Sometimes there would be seven minutes between contractions and a little part of me was afraid that they were going to send me home. I didn't know how far along I was (I had been at a 3 at my appointment that morning) but I knew that baby was going to come. I'd done this enough times.<br />
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So we got to the hospital and got checked in and into a triage room. I got checked and was still at a 3. I hate getting checked. Nothing as disappointing as going through some pretty good contractions and then finding out you're still at the very beginning. But this was a good 4 or 5 hours into real contractions and I knew that if they just let me alone, it could go pretty quickly and I did not want them to send me home. <br />
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So the nurse said they would let me stay for an hour and see if I had made enough progress to admit me. I had two different nurses working with me throughout this: Carol and Heather. Carol was ... not so great, and Heather ended up being my hero. Carol was the nurse who gave me an hour. <br />
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I was determined to be as relaxed as I could and let my body labor efficiently so we could stay and just have the darn baby! Heather came in and out and we chatted and once again, there were times where there were seven or so minutes in between contractions. After that hour was up, Heather checked me and said I was maybe a 4. I wasn't thrilled with the progress, but it was progress, so that was good. She said she would admit me and acted like she was doing me a big favor. I said a big thanks and we got moved to another room. <br />
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Yay, we were going to have a baby! So I labored on, thinking I was still at a 4. Come to find out a few hours later, that when Heather had checked me, I was actually at a 5/6. But she told me I was at a 4 because she had been around enough women who, when they find out they're kind of far along, decide it's time to freak out and get hysterical. So she told me I was at a 4 because she didn't want to deal with that, and wanted to test the waters a little bit and see if I was one of those hysterical laborers. I'm not. :) And she agreed with me. But we thought it was pretty funny (well, I thought it was a little mean too) that she totally lied to us. Ha ha.<br />
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By that time I was already at a 7/8, so I was progressing well enough. It was still longer than Jonny's birth had been, and I was ready to finish up. :) The doc said he could break my water if I wanted and he would bet that the baby would come very quickly after that. I liked that idea, so he went ahead and did that. And the contractions got hard after that. It's interesting how each labor and delivery are so different, and my techniques for managing the pain are different too. This time, at the beginning of transition, ice chips were my good friend. Every time a contraction hit, I would start munching on ice chips and kind of hum a tune in my head. Then as they got harder, I tried to do what I did last time-- lie completely still and breathe with the beats of my heart. But they were getting harder and harder, although they weren't quite as close as it seemed like they should have been for transition. <br />
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Then Carol came in to check me. This was about 12:00. I was still at an 8. I hadn't progressed in hours, which is unusual for a 5th, all-natural birth. She started saying maybe they should give me pitocin, maybe an epidural would relax me, blah, blah, blah. Basically she scared me. She made me think that labor wasn't working and I was going to need interventions. That is a really bad thing to say to a woman who is in the middle of transition and has been for hours. If you haven't had a baby, one of the accompanying emotions of transition is panic. It's just one of the things that will come. If I had known about that with my first, I might not have ended up with a c-section. Anyways, when a woman is trying to beat down the panic, and someone tells her that her labor isn't working, and she needs intervention, that woman is not going to be in a strong enough place to fight back. I started thinking maybe she was right, and I did need pitocin and and epidural, but I was terrified to think that that would probably lead to a c-section. But the rational part of my brain was turned off. I started to believe that I couldn't do it. When Carol left, Jeff told me not to do it. Not to get the pitocin or the epidural or any of that, because we both knew how it would go. I remember being in tears, trying to persuade him that maybe I did need it after all. <br />
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Thankfully, Heather came back in. She came and said she had heard that I was thinking of getting an epidural. She could see that I was panicking and full of fear (birth's worst enemy). She told me I absolutely could do this, that Carol was wrong. I didn't need pitocin. I didn't need an epidural. I was still at an 8, and baby was still at a -1, but she said sometimes after a lot of births, the uterus or cervix or something gets lazy. She wanted to see if I could just push past it and push myself to a 10. She said all the right things and got my confidence back. So I started pushing. I pushed for a few minutes and she said it worked! I was at a 10 and this baby was going to be born soon. <br />
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Relief flooded over me. I was still a little apprehensive that her optimism wasn't realistic, but she never left my side. She stayed right there and encouraged me. She really was my angel. She saved me from a c-section, I know she did. :) She called the doctor and said I was ready to push for real.<br />
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I was still in that panicky mode and kind of shaky, but once I got into the pushing position and everything was ready, it was go time. I knew how to push. And push I did. I pushed out that baby in under 10 minutes from a -1 station. Turns out the reason my contractions were so far apart and I had trouble progressing at the end was because she was posterior-- face up. So her head wasn't applying enough pressure during the contractions to dilate me all the way. I'm glad I had already had babies and knew how to push. It's extra hard to push out a posterior baby and it took everything I had. <br />
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The silly thing was that no one knew she was posterior. I read later that you can tell. When they check, you can tell by how the head feels that the baby is posterior. And early enough in labor they can turn the baby. But I guess she was so far up there that they couldn't get a good feel? Maybe. But Heather said that was only the 8th baby she'd had that was posterior and was delivered vaginally instead of by c-section. And I knew that without her, it wouldn't have happened. She told me I could do it, and made me believe her. And I did it. I know that if Carol had been the one attending me, I would have ended up with a c-section. When Heather heard I was having trouble, she stepped in and saved me. Ironically, when Emma was actually born, Carol was in an OR--her other patient ended up with a c-section.<br />
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Since Emma came out in a weird position, I had some pretty good tearing, so they had to stitch me up. This time they didn't use any painkillers, which was ok with me, since that what hurt so much before. When Emma came out, they put her right on my chest, not wiped off or anything. And I got to hold her there and nurse her while they stitched me up, which made it more bearable. She was the sweetest little baby and from the moment I met her, I fell in love. There's something very special and spiritual about a brand new baby. <br />
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She was 8 lbs 7 ounces, which was a whole pound bigger than my other girls. She had lots of dark hair in the back and around the sides, which kind of made her look like an old man. :) But she had beautiful little features and was just perfect. That was a longer and harder delivery than I was expecting, but when she was born, I knew it was worth it. I also knew that I was going to love being her mom. I was especially grateful for that, since I had been feeling very uneasy about having five kids, not knowing if I could really handle it. But when I held her in my arms, I knew I wanted to do it. <br />
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She is just the sweetest little baby and has been relatively easy. I love everything about her. Nights are actually my favorite time of day right now because all I have to do it wake up, feed and love on my little sweetheart, then she goes back to bed very easily, and I get to go to sleep happy. :) We all love her so much! <br />
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Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-91910378584014931632012-09-02T20:10:00.001-04:002012-09-02T20:10:27.601-04:00I Guess I Should BlogToday I:<br />
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Got everybody ready and made it to church on time (miracle!)<br />
Bore my testimony<br />
Paid tithing<br />
Subbed in Nursery<br />
Made a birthday cake!<br />
Made dinner!<br />
And a few other random things. Yay me. :)Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-39138428505953827452012-08-30T11:28:00.001-04:002015-01-20T08:48:31.739-05:00COME ON!Yesterday was our anniversary! I knew that Jeff had ordered me some flowers, so all day long I waited anxiously for them. Once the afternoon hit, I went to the flower website to make sure they were actually ordered. They were and were supposed to be delivered by 4:30. I waited and waited. <br />
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Nothing. :( They didn't come! <br />
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I checked again this morning and now they're in Jacksonville, hopefully to be delivered today. <br />
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Good grief, if anything should be delivered on time, flowers are pretty high up on the list. I was so disappointed! Hopefully they will come today and be so beautiful it will make up for the fact that they're late.<br />
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Edit: The reason this was such a big deal is Jeff was actually deployed at the time, and getting those flowers was the only kind of celebration I was going to get. So when they were late, I was very disappointed. :)Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-13006460713975360062012-08-29T11:29:00.001-04:002012-08-29T11:29:25.751-04:00WIC GuiltI signed Jonathan up for WIC today. I have so much guilt associated with this!! I should just let it go.<br />
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Guilt 1. That I'm not exclusively breastfeeding anymore. About a month ago, he got thrush. OW! Thrush makes breastfeeding excruciating!! I wanted to quit then, but I stuck with it and when I couldn't stand another second, he got a bottle. Whew, I made it though. Then a little over week ago, he got it again!! I guess it never went away completely. So he got more bottles again. And I started some intense dieting, so all those combined made my milk go waaay down. Now we're doing formula during the day and breastfeeding at night. I try to tell myself that he's still getting the good stuff from breastfeeding even if it's not exclusive. <br />
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Guilt 2. That I even accepted WIC. We're not rich or even close to it, but when we budget and are careful we have enough for our needs. But formula is expensive. <br />
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Guilt 3. The ladies at WIC tried to make me feel guilty that my other kids (and I) aren't on it! Why, why, why? they asked. They started to make make me feel that I should put everybody on it. When I finally got out of there, away from the pressure, I remembered that No! They don't need WIC! I work hard to try to feed them well. They don't eat a lot of junk, but eat meat, fruits, veggies, grains, and dairy. So I don't need to feel pressure to put them on it. Sure, then we would have more money for other things, but good food is more important than toys or non-essentials. We have enough for our needs, and don't need all our wants. <br />
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What a day! Time to just get over it.<br />
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In other news, today is our 6th Anniversary! We'll be having a little family party tonight to celebrate. :)Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-84363014804344153852012-08-27T14:38:00.001-04:002012-08-27T14:38:12.815-04:00Who I AmI now have a profile on mormon.org! Yay! Check me out at <a href="http://mormon.org/me/9KC5">http://mormon.org/me/9KC5</a>.Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-12014270544527755252012-07-28T19:37:00.002-04:002012-07-28T19:37:21.705-04:00I don't have a lot to say tonight. Kind of like the last few nights as can be surmised by the quality of my posts. :) Tonight I will iron, make another bow tie, wrap a wedding present, and watch some olympics. Ta Da!<br />
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Maybe I'll be more inspired tomorrow.Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-60927769592431575522012-07-27T21:11:00.000-04:002012-07-27T21:11:50.340-04:00The heat has been killing us. Yesterday we went to a park for an hour and a half in the morning and today we just went to the playground in front of our house for 30 minutes and I felt like I was going to die. I think temperature-wise, it's only in the high 80s, but the heat index is 112. Yuck. I feel so bad, because the kids really want to go out and play, but we just can't for very long. I wish there were a mall nearby with an indoor playplace. I have a feeling it would be very popular. I'm learning that while most places stay indoors in the winter, here we play during the winter and hibernate during the summer.Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-14571432012645905182012-07-26T20:16:00.000-04:002012-07-26T20:16:26.753-04:00This post is about how awesome my husband's chest is.I asked Jeff what I should blog about tonight and that's what he said. So that's what I'm doing. :) <div>
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He's been working out a lot and has added quite a bit of bulk to his chest and arms. So yeah, he's lookin' pretty awesome these days. :)</div>Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-13657100647056384782012-07-25T22:22:00.000-04:002012-07-25T22:23:34.195-04:00WookieRebekah is at such a cute age right now. She's so roly poly and mostly sweet, and is learning new words every day. One of the cutest things she does is say "look!" But it comes out "wook!" and she says it about 10 times until you acknowledge what she's pointing at. Many times I have no idea why she's getting my attention about that specific item, but it sure is cute. And if she gets a boo boo, same thing:<br />
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"wook! wook! wook! wook! wook! wook! wook! wook! wook! wook!" <br />
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It makes me giggle. :)<br />
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She's our little wookie.Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-7340199435763775932012-07-24T21:22:00.001-04:002012-07-24T21:22:43.929-04:00A Little NervousJeff went to see the new Batman movie last night, by himself. I didn't have any interest in seeing that movie, even before the shooting. We live in a small town that is pretty safe, but I still had that flicker of fear that there would be a copycat shooter that night. I pushed the idea down, telling myself it was silly and we shouldn't let fear dictate how we live.<br />
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When he got home, he told me that just when the bad guy started being really bad, there was the sound of a chainsaw or a weed whacker coming from just outside the emergency exit door. Eventually it did go away, and he thinks that someone was actually whacking the weeds out there. Then later in the movie during a particularly quiet part, he said he swore he heard the sound of a 9mm being cocked in the back of the theater. I don't know what that was all about, but he was definitely on alert, waiting, almost expecting something to happen.<br />
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I asked him what his plan would have been, had something happened. Because of course, Jeff would have a plan. He said his plan was to get down first, try to figure out the movements of the bad guy and come up with a way to take him down. I wasn't surprised. I was both proud and ... I'm not sure what the other emotion was. I am proud to be married to someone who would try to take out the bad guy and save people. (And Jeff really is like that, not just talk. I've seen him react quickly to help people in crises.) But on the other hand, I would like for him to survive, and taking on a shooter doesn't give you good odds. <br />
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Then tonight we went to Chick-fil-A for dinner. It was family night there, where a kids' meal comes free with the purchase of an adult entree. There was also a clown. Twice, a balloon popped, making a very loud, very sudden noise. The first one really startled me and got me thinking about the shooting again. The second one still startled me, just not as much. <br />
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I am so mad at this world we live in, where evil people cause terror and shatter so many lives. I am heartbroken for people who lose loved ones to needless tragedies. I am grateful for the gospel and the foundation it gives me. And I am sad for people who have no foundation and flounder alone.<br />
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Not a very happy post, but definitely things that have been on my mind lately. <br />
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After Katelyn was born, my hair started really falling out and I was feeling lousy. I talked to my mom about those and some other symptoms I was having and she recommended I get my thyroid checked. <span style="background-color: white;">I did and I am a little hypothyroid. So I've been taking a little purple pill everyday since then. Well at least I am supposed to. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">One of the symptoms of hypothyroidism is depression. A little while after Bekah was born, I ran out of my medicine and thought that I could probably beat the depression on my own without it. But I wasn't thinking clearly and I forgot completely the reason that I was taking it-- that my body doesn't make enough of that hormone, which in turns makes all the other hormones in the body. So I should have been taking it. STUPID. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">Anyways, I finally realized what I was doing and went back on it. After my thyroid stablized, I went in for a routine blood test and got all my endocrine hormones tested, along with many other things. Most things were fine, but my estradiol levels (estrogen) were post-menopausal low. Let me say that again. My estrogen levels were POST-Menopausal low. So basically I was experiencing early ovarian failure, and with that comes early menopause. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">I was shattered. Here I was at 27 staring menopause in the face. I was so terrified that my stupid mistake had caused my reproductive system to shut down and I wouldn't be able to have any more kids. I felt so stupid and broken. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">This was right before Jeff left on a short patrol. I was worried and he was worried. He came home and we started trying to have a baby, not knowing if it would work, but knowing that we didn't want to lose any more time. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">Amazingly, I got pregnant very fast and here we are on the other end with our beautiful baby Jonathan. I really was terrified that I couldn't have any more children, but somehow we got our baby. I'm not sure how, since my levels were so low. And there was the very real fear that my body wouldn't make the hormones necessary to sustain the pregnancy to term so I was scared of miscarriage like never before. But everything went very smoothly and I was so very relieved and grateful.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">So that is the short story of why I consider Jonathan to be my mini miracle baby. I still don't know if we'll be able to have more babies in the future, but we got our Johnny here and if we can't, I think we'll be ok. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">But now I know to take my medicine every single day!!</span>Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-16810019198905961112012-07-20T19:20:00.001-04:002012-07-20T19:20:53.331-04:00Jeffy, Katey, and Bekah had well baby visits today. Three at once- wahoo! It was a lot better than individual appointments with a bunch of extra kids dragged along. Doing it like this from now on. <br /><br />
Anyways, here's their weight so I can remember it:<br />
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Jeffy: 47 lbs<br />
Katelyn: 32 lbs<br />
Rebekah: 29 lbs<br />
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They're all looking good! Jeffy will be going back to speech therapy soon and Bekah's probably not going to have her cyst removed anytime soon. Another yay!<br />
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Tired. <span style="background-color: white;">Done for today. Back tomorrow. :)</span>Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-64231268532273573062012-07-19T20:01:00.000-04:002012-07-19T20:04:37.160-04:00Tomorrow there will be a change in our routine. Since baby was born I haven't been able to spend the time and put the big kids to bed like I used to. It would take a good half an hour-- we'd all sit together on Jeffy's bed and read stories, sing songs, talk about our day, say prayers, and just be together. I miss that and I'm sure they do too. But that always seems like that's baby's crankiest time, so I just try to rush and get them in bed so I can help him stop crying. <br />
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But I think I'm going to put him in his bed or something and let him cry. I think I really need that time with the kids. They are happier and I feel like a better mom when we do that. And crying doesn't hurt the baby. He does that anyways. <br />
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I'm looking forward to it. I've missed that sweet time with my sweet babies. :)Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-86301763877288887662012-07-18T21:21:00.001-04:002012-07-18T21:21:21.396-04:00Refit is the hardest part of a submariner's schedule. At least that's my opinion, but I think most people would agree<span style="background-color: white;">. Refit is when the boat is in and the crew is doing maintenance on it before it goes back out. It's hard because the sailors are on 3-day duty, which means they have a 24-hour shift once every three days, and usually 12-hours shifts for the next two. So a sailor will work 7:00 am Monday to 7:00 am Tuesday, at which point he starts his Tuesday shift, then gets off at 7:00 pm. Wednesday he'll be back to work at 7:00 am to 7:00 pm, then it starts over again with a 24-hour shift on Thursday. Weekends are not excluded for duty days, but if you don't have duty, you can hope for it off. </span><br />
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Not only are the hours exhausting, but the work is too. So basically we see Jeff for a few hours every couple of days when he's in a state in which he can barely think let alone move. Poor guy. Poor family.<br />
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Here's why it's hard on me: <br />
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1) He's gone all the time, so the single parent thing kicks in. I become responsible for everything-- the kids, the house, the cars, the administrative stuff, everything, because Jeff won't have a spare minute in a day to do it. He gets home, says hello to the kids and plays with them for a few minutes (if they're even still awake) then it's off to bed to try to recover and gear up for the next day.<br />
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2) But he's still "home," so I still need to keep the house clean, the kids clean, make food, and do all that stuff. I know, just plain awful right? :) But when he's gone, I can skip the cleaning, skip the dinner or the bath, and it's no big deal. But when he's kind of home, it makes a big difference for him when it's done so I need to do it.<br />
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3) And when life gets hard, people get cranky. Especially the kids. Enough said on that one.<br />
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So anyways, life during refit is hard. Military life is hard. I try very hard not to complain and this wasn't intended to be a complaint either. Most of the people who read this blog aren't military and I thought they might be interested as to what it's like. <br />
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So yes, it can be hard. But I know we were supposed to join the military, specifically the Navy nuke program. And that's why I don't complain. I'll write the story of why I know that another day.Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-1663617075624749552012-07-18T07:26:00.002-04:002012-07-18T07:26:38.994-04:00I'm counting this as last night's post. :)<br />
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I've been making a few things for Cassidy's wedding-- advice cards and these little monogrammed medallions that are going on the centerpieces. Her colors are black damask over white with splashes of yellow. It's very elegant and pretty. <br />
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I've been doing these projects on my silhouette, which I LOVE. Jeff got it for me for Christmas/birthday/valentine's day this last year, since he was going to be gone for all of them. It is one of my most favoritest gifts ever. It is essentially a cutting tool, but I use the design software for so many things too. I love it! I just finished the wedding stuff last night and it turned out great. I can't wait to see the rest of the wedding, looks like it's going to look fabulous.<br />
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On a different note, I can't believe Cassidy is getting married! Makes me feel like I must be getting old. I'm the oldest, and she's the 5th and she's getting married! Crazy. But she found this guy who seems pretty much perfect for her, so there you go. I am so excited to see everyone again in just a few weeks! I met Jon at Christmas and he seems great. Of course, Jeff was out so he couldn't come and he can't come to the wedding either. Someday he'll get to see everyone again. Poor guy.<br />
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Ok, this has turned a little more rambly than I intended. Till tonight!Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-83649552660767494212012-07-16T22:08:00.000-04:002012-07-16T22:08:18.286-04:00I'm tired and I don't have much to say tonight. But I don't want to miss another day. <br />
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I've been doing a lot of baking lately. Not great for losing the baby weight, but fun. :) I made white bread and banana bread on Friday, cinnamon rolls on Saturday and donuts on Sunday. That was the first time I've ever made donuts and I want to try again and make them even better. The kids and I have been enjoying the yumminess, with Jeff partaking every so often. <br />
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But I need to stop and refocus my energy on exercising. That's my new big project! No more babies at least for a while, so it's time to get as close to my old body as is possible. I'm excited. And even more excited to discover that housing has a fitness room in the community center with an activity room next for the kids to be in while I work out. Awesome! Last summer I was doing awesome and working out 1, sometimes 2 times a day and it's time to get myself back in gear. Looking forward to it!Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-72275529209028559972012-07-13T21:02:00.001-04:002012-07-13T21:02:39.302-04:00To breastfeed or not to breastfeed, that is the question. Lately I've been wanting to quit breastfeeding and go all bottle. It just takes so much time! I feel like it would be a lot easier and faster to feed him with a bottle. His tummy would get fuller faster and he might sleep better. We could establish a regular routine and stick with it. And I would have more time to do other kid stuff. <br />
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But even as I write this, I know I won't. Just a dumb wish for more time, I guess. <br />
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On a different note, today went much better. My big project for the day was taking the kids to the splash park. That was a lot more fun. :)Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-2820115109649248552012-07-12T20:43:00.000-04:002012-07-12T20:43:10.858-04:00I feel spent. Today was a long, hard day and the worst part is that I feel I brought it on myself. This afternoon I decided to paint another wall in the toy room. Why do I take on such big projects when I have 4 little people who need me pretty much constantly? No more big projects. Time to focus on the kids. It's time to get Katelyn to obey no matter what. That in itself would make my life a lot easier. Anyone have any tips on that front?Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-24161820044847746592012-07-11T21:06:00.001-04:002012-07-11T21:06:24.144-04:00Jeffy punched a hole in his bedroom wall today. I don't think he was mad; I think he just wanted to see if he was strong enough to do it. Yup, he is. It's interesting the kind of damage my kids figure out to do to all these homes we do not own. In New York, they trashed the carpet. Here we have tile (we specifically chose the one with tile to avoid the carpet) so that's not an option. Instead they punch through walls and rip apart air vents. And I wish I could blame it all on the boy, but that would be unfair to him! Katelyn is as much a wrecking ball as he is, maybe even more. Oh kids. They say you get the kind of kid that you were. I blame Jeff. I sure didn't go around punching walls to see if I could. :) <br />
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Blarg.Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-29156596960870912122012-07-10T21:14:00.000-04:002012-07-10T21:14:14.697-04:00Baby man smiled at me for a good 10 seconds today. It was amazing! And I didn't feel any kind of rumbling inside, so I have decided it was a real smile and not just gas. :) It made me so happy! I have been feeling an extra outpouring of love towards my kids lately. We had McDonalds for dinner tonight and when he was done with his food, Jeffy tried to pull the happy meal box onto his head as a hat. Of course his head is way too big so it didn't fit and he just kept ripping off whatever piece he was holding. I laughed long and hard at that. He just looked so cute with that box hat! And he told me I was a great mom today. Sure it was because I got him McDonald's, but I can pretend it was for a different reason. When Bekah is hurt or upset she very pitifully calls out "Mommy!" She doesn't have a very good vocabulary yet, but she's got that word down pat. And it tugs at my heart strings every time. She needs me and wants me to comfort her when she's sad or in pain. The sister missionaries stopped by today and commented multiple times on Katekyn's cute little voice. And it's true. She has the cutest little sing song voice and her "ok"s and "yes" which is almost with a lisp, and the way she copies what her big brother says-- it's all just so cute. <div>
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In want of becoming a better mom I have prayed in the past for the ability to develop more patience. I think I'll pray instead for more love. Having more love is such a great feeling. It's wonderful to be reminded of what a sweet, innocent little being each of my children is, and how they deserve respect and kindness and love. I'm glad I wrote about this tonight, so when I'm frustrated for some meaningless, silly reason, I can come back to this and get that reminder to stop and just love them. Because I do. So much. :) </div>Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-32315750033722553932012-07-09T21:56:00.001-04:002012-07-09T21:56:45.480-04:00I think I need to not restrict myself to blogging at night. I usually am tired and the only thing I think of to post about is a list of what I did that day. Not good enough!<br />
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Tomorrow I'm going to post in the middle of the day when I have something to express. Sounds better. :)<br />
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And I'm not going to worry about creating a title. Do people title journal entries? I never have.Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-54480513781001189402012-07-08T21:38:00.002-04:002012-07-08T21:40:17.771-04:00I Missed a Day!Dangit! I was doing great.<br />
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Yesterday was a busy day. We cleaned the house for the babysitter to come over (anyone else have to do this?) and went out on a birthday date. Today is Jeff's birthday, and it's one where he now considers himself an old man. Ha ha. <br />
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We went out to dinner and a movie, and actually had a great time. I say actually because it's a pretty standard date so it was nice to have a really good time, not because it's surprising to enjoy spending time together. :) Since it was his birthday we went out to sushi. I hate sushi! I tried it again and yup, I hate it. It's not even the fish part I hate-- it's the seaweed rice part. But I got some yummy chicken that came with a salad, soup, and fried rice. It was so yummy! Dinner was a nice surprise. <br />
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And we went to see The Amazing Spiderman, which I had very low expectations for. The 1st of the Toby McGuire series came out our senior year of high school and I have fond memories associated with it, so it's rather sentimental and I didn't like the look of the previews for this one. But both Jeff and I really enjoyed it! Peter Parker was much less annoying and much more endearing than I expected. So that was a nice surprise too.<br />
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We did bring baby with us and that made for less of a relaxing night for me. He had his first bottle ever at the restaurant then fell asleep for a while, but then woke up and I ended up breastfeeding him for most of the movie. That was kind of awkward. Luckily, the movie wasn't too crowded and he did eventually fall asleep. It was a nice night out and we enjoyed it. <br />
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And today was his actual birthday so he got lots of yummy food and some peace and quiet. His birthday candles were sparkles this year, which I thought was AWESOME. That was a lot of fun. Yay for birthdays!Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-34470597556832289352012-07-06T21:48:00.001-04:002012-07-06T21:48:13.958-04:00LearningToday I realized I the frazzled and overwhelmed feelings I was having were due to my house getting messy. I've been really good lately about picking up everyday and keeping everything relatively under control. But yesterday was a busy day and I didn't have a chance to do any maintenance, so it was slipping down hill. Today was kind of busy too, but it wasn't anything super important, and I couldn't figure out what was making me feel so frantic. <br />
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Then I realized the mess was causing my anxiety, so I cleaned and felt a lot better. I think I am actually becoming one of those people who enjoy cleaning. It's happening very slowly, but I am noticing huge differences in my mood depending on the state of my house (duh). Before, (in NY) I would be feeling very discouraged and depressed, and would try to do things to feel better. But those were the WRONG things. Eating and watching tv did not help, it just made me spiral down more. But now I know that when I'm feeling down, I need to do the things that are going to result in a happy feeling. The act of eating something yummy is definitely more enjoyable than the act of cleaning the kitchen. But the end result of cleaning is a much happier feeling than the guilt and other bad feelings that are the end result of eating. Another lesson learned. <br />
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Anyways, this isn't what I really intended to blog about today, but it's what came out. So there you go!Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-81626800726742995782012-07-05T22:00:00.002-04:002012-07-05T22:01:29.045-04:00The hardest part is thinking of a titleI almost forgot to post today. Oh no!<br />
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It was a pretty good day. Had a playdate that we all enjoyed, went to Jonathan's well baby appointment and got his stats (always fun) and went to a family meeting on base. It was fun to see people we haven't seen in a while and show off baby. And I got some presents for a baby shower tomorrow. I love baby showers! I'm excited to put the present all together.<br />
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And I re-did the blog last night. I like it a lot. The pictures aren't amazing, but they're cute, and I like the blog background. That's my theme for life right now- I am a strong woman and I can do it. :)Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685188327346343222.post-28447136870714777012012-07-04T20:30:00.000-04:002012-07-04T20:30:12.915-04:00Happy Independence Day!I seriously love the 4th of July! I love everything about it-- the parades, the fireworks, going to parks, beaches, having bbqs, roasting s'mores, everything! <br />
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Today we went to the parade as a family. Last year I took Jeffy, Katelyn, and Bekah while Jeff was out to sea on his first patrol. It's more fun having him around, even if I had to basically drag him there. But he did admit that I was right and it was a lot of fun. Just about every float/car that passed threw out candy and Jeffy and Katey got very good at calling out "candy please!" And we even got some beads, flags, frisbees, and fans. I think next year I'll make little bags for their loot, they really come away with that much. The parade was what I was looking forward to the most. :)<br />
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Then we came home, fed baby, got everyone into their swimsuits (which I can't believe took an hour and a half) and headed over to our community's splash park! This is our 2nd summer here and our first time to the splash park! Silly us. It was a blast! The kids had a lot of fun. There was a mushroom thing that was supposed to be dripping lots of water, but it wasn't working so well, which worked out perfectly for me. Just a few spots were dripping, so I pulled a chair under there and sat with Jonathan while everyone else ran around. <br />
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Then we came home and took naps. Well, some people took naps and other people wished they could. :) For dinner, we tried to roast hot dogs and marshmellows over the grill in the backyard, but there were a million too many mosquitos so we came inside. We made them instead on the propane stove on the kitchen table. :) <br />
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No fireworks show for us tonight, as I'm too tired to try to beat the traffic, hoards, and bugs, but when it gets dark, I'm doing sparklers. :)<br />
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Happy 4th to you too!Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03585406304435895306noreply@blogger.com2